Support for parents
A guide to external organisations that can help in time of difficulty
We understand that families can experience difficulties in life for many reasons. This section contains pointers to external organisations and agencies that can help parents and children in difficult circumstances. Do contact school and let us know if there is anything going on at home that could affect your child's learning and well-being at school.
Take a look also at our well-being information here for a few tips on keeping your children happy and healthy.
B&NES council support for families
There is a lot of information and support available in Bath and North East Somerset (B&NES). You can see a summary of B&NES family services here
Samaritans
Call 116 123 or 08457 909090. See the Samaritans website here. This organisation offers support to individuals in distress for any reason.
Childline
If you are unhappy about anything and would like to talk to someone please call 0800 11 11. There are people there all the time to listen to you. You can find out more information on the Childline website.
Children's Centres
Children’s Centres are places where parents with children aged 0 – 5 years can share the challenges and joys of parenthood. They offer a range of activities and support services to help you with all aspects of parenting to make sure your child gets the best start in life and improve their life chances. Bath and North East Somerset has 4 main Children’s Centre Hub buildings located across the county offering families of 0 - 5 year olds a variety of services. Children’s Centre services are also provided in a range of venues in local communities so that families can access support close to where they live. Find out more about B&NES Children's Centres here.
LiveWell from B&NES
This is a free online resource to support children and families, young people with special educational needs and/or disabilities, and adults living independently in the B&NES area.
You will find information about mental health resources and support, groups and activities for all ages, support groups, signposting to organisations on a huge range of topics including practical support, money matters, food banks, low cost uniform, school holiday clubs, Ofsted registered childcare, welfare support and so much more. It is also where you will find information about B&NES’ Local Offer, supporting children and young people with Special Educational Needs living in Bath & North East Somerset.
Please visit their website and supporting social media pages to find out more:
https://livewell.bathnes.gov.uk/
www.facebook.com/livewellbathnes
www.instagram.com/Youth_Info_Bathnes
B&NES Family Information Service
Use Bathnes 1 Big Database to find information about a range of family related issues such as:
- Registered childcare, including childminders, nurseries, after school and holiday clubs;
- Parenting support;
- Activities, groups and events;
- 'What's on' for families locally;
- Baby and toddler groups;
- Support groups and much more.
For families with a child with special educational needs or disabilities (SEND) or an additional need search B&NES Rainbow Resource for:
- Local and National support organisations;
- Activities and events;
- News and events;
- Resource library.
Are you (or do you care for) an adult in need of care and support? Wellbeing Options supports people in Bath and North East Somerset to live full and independent lives. Find information about:
- Local care providers;
- Services and activities;
- support for carers;
- Health and wellbeing information;
- Home and housing;
- 'What's on' locally.
Southside Family Project
Southside supports individuals and families living in Bath and North East Somerset to make positive changes in their lives. Southside strives to reduce social isolation and to build strong, resilient communities.
Southside is there for you whether you are grappling with problems such as domestic abuse, substance abuse, mental health difficulties; or problems with finance and debt, housing issues or concerns related to education and employment.
Find out more about Southside here
Citizens Advice
Citizens advice can offer advice and support with:
- Benefits
- Work
- Debt and money
- Consumer
- Family
- Housing
- Law and courts
- Immigration
- Health
For information about how they can help, visit https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/
Cruse Bereavement Care
Cruse Bereavement Care seeks to help anyone who has been bereaved to understand their grief and cope with their loss. They also offer advice for parents and carers about supporting children who are affected by grief. Services are free to bereaved people. The charity provides support and offers information, advice, education and training services. You can call their free helpline on 0808 808 1677 or take a look at their website: www.cruse.org.uk
Email: helpline@cruse.org.uk
Winston’s Wish
Winston’s Wish, the charity for bereaved children, helps young people re-adjust to life after the death of a parent or sibling. By providing professional assistance before, during and after bereavement they help them to better understand the nature of loss and offer the practical support and guidance that many need in order to cope throughout the grieving process.
www.winstonswish.org or call 08088 020 021.
Bereavement UK
This hub provides links to professional bereavement support and information for families: www.bereavement.co.uk
Bereavement Counselling Directory
A comprehensive list of bereavement support in the UK including counsellors, charities and support groups: https://ukhouseclearance.com/bereavement-counsellors-and-groups
Dorothy House
Dorothy House hospice care provides compassionate care and support for people in the community with a life-limiting illness.
NSPCC
Advice on how to have difficult conversations with your children from the NSPCC.
Childhood Bereavement UK
Childhood Bereavement UK contains advice on staying connected when someone close is seriously ill and on supporting children and young people through bereavement.
Young Minds
Young Minds for supporting your child with grief and loss.
Grief Encounter
Grief Encounter is a charity supporting bereaved children and young people, with a therapy centre in Bristol.
Bullying UK
Take a look at www.bullying.co.uk for support and information about all kinds of bullying including cyber bullying.
CEOP
Get advice on reporting online abuse from the National Crime Agency’s Child Exploitation and Online Protection command.
Anti-bullying Alliance
Get advice and support from Anti-Bullying Alliance for children who are being bullied.
Kidscape
This organisation's mission is 'to provide children, families, carers and professionals with advice, training and practical tools to prevent bullying and protect young lives'. Take a look at their website here: www.kidscape.org.uk, email info@kidscape.org.uk or contact their parent advice line on 020 7823 5430 (Mon and Tues from 9:30am to 2:30pm).
FRANK
This charity supports children and families affected by drugs, giving full and honest information about drugs. You can contact FRANK by phone, text, email or live chat. See the website for full information www.talktofrank.com
Alcoholics Anonymous
A national helpline that supports those having difficulties with or those who are addicted to alcohol. See www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk, call 0800 9177 650 or email help@aamail.org.
Adfam
Adfam is dedicated to improving life for families affected by drugs and alcohol. See the Adfam website adfam.org.uk here. There is help for families here and links to many other useful organisations.
Rehab4Addiction
This is a free advisory and referral service available to people who are recovering from alcohol, drug and behavioural addiction. See the website for full information www.rehab4addiction.co.uk/ or call 0800 140 4690
Bath & North East Somerset Drug and Alcohol Service
Anyone living in Bath & North East Somerset can get free and confidential help if they are struggling with drugs or alcohol. https://www.dhi-online.org.uk/get-help/adult-drug-alcohol-treatment/bath-north-east-somerset-drug-and-alcohol-service
Rehab Recovery
Rehab Recovery is an organisation that provides addiction treatment and healthcare advice for a wide range of different addiction and dependency problems. They have a 24/7 help and advice line: 0800 088 66 86 and their website has more information about the services they offer. https://www.rehab-recovery.co.uk/
BEAT
Provides lots of information on eating disorders and support for people who have or are worried they have an eating disorder, as well as others affected, such as friends and family members. Call the helpline on 0808 801 0677, or see a list of support services here: www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/support-services and the complete website here: www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/.
STEPS
For information about local specialist services, see the Avon and Wiltshire Mental Health Partnership website: http://www.awp.nhs.uk/services/specialist/steps/
Carers
If you care for someone or are in need of care, information about services can be found at the Well-Being Options website.
Young carers are children and young people under 18 who care for a sick or disabled relative, including someone who has mental health or severe drug and alcohol problems.
A young carer may also care for their brother(s) or sister(s), maybe because one or both parents is no longer around. Even if another adult is living in the household, the young person may still be the main carer. For BaNES services for young carers, see their information page.
Self harm
The NHS website has comprehensive advice on self harm and how to get help.
Harmless is a charity aimed at supporting people who are at risk of self-harm and suicide. It is a national voluntary organisation for people who self harm, their friends, families and professionals. You can find out more from their website
Weight management
The Children’s Weight Management(CWM) service helps overweight and obese children, young people and their families to reach and maintain a healthier weight. To find out more about their their services, visit https://bathneshealthandcare.nhs.uk/childrens/childrens-weight-management/
For guidance for adults wanting to achieve a healthy weight, information about the NHS weight loss plan can be found here
Shelter
Shelter provides support for individuals and families at risk of being homeless. Please see their website here for details of how Shelter can help or, in case of urgent need, you can call 0808 800 4444 (every day of the year from 8am to 8pm weekdays and 9am to 5pm at weekends). england.shelter.org.uk/get_advice
Bath and North East Somerset Housing
For information about BaNES housing support services, see their website: https://www.bathnes.gov.uk/services/housing
Every Mind Matters
Every Mind Matters is an initiave from Public Health England. It provides a free plan, expert advice and practical tips to support positive mental health.
Young Minds
This organisation offers support to young people and families who may be worried about mental health issues. Take a look at the Young Minds website here for advice on issues including anxiety, eating disorders, depression and OCD.
Parents and young people can contact Young Minds in a variety of ways. Young people who are experiencing a crisis can text YM to 85258. All texts are answered by trained volunteers and texts are free from EE, O2, Vodafone, 3, Virgin Mobile, BT Mobile, GiffGaff, Tesco Mobile and Telecom Plus.
MIND
MIND supports individuals and families experiencing mental health problems. See www.mind.org.uk for details including a button for anyone in need of urgent help. Otherwise see a range of contact options here, call 0300 123 3393 or text 86463
Emotional health and well-being in B&NES
For a comprehensive guide to local services, visit https://www.bathnes.gov.uk/services/care-and-support-and-you/mental-health
Off The Record
Off the Record Bath and North East Somerset provides a range of free services including counselling, listening support, youth participation, advocacy and specialist groups, support for care leavers and a LGBT+ focused youth group. https://www.offtherecord-banes.co.uk/
National Childbirth Trust
The NCT provides support and information in pregnancy, birth and early days of parenthood. See www.nct.org.uk.
Miscarriage Association
The Miscarriage Association offers a website and helpline to offer support to those having experienced a miscarriage. See www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk or call the helpline on 01924 200799 (Mon-Fri, 9am - 4pm).
British Pregnancy Advisory Service
BPAS aims to provide support and care for women seeking legal abortion in the UK. See www.bpas.org or call 03457 30 40 30.
Relate
This is a nationwide service for those needing support with relationship issues. This can mean couple counselling, individual counselling and family counselling. There are local counselling centres that can be accessed in the day or evenings. See www.relate.org.uk for information or call 0300 100 1234.
National Family Mediation
This organisation exists to help families in conflict (especially those divorcing or separating). See www.nfm.org.uk for information or call 0300 4000 636.
Family Lives
Family Lives offers support for parents on a wide range of topics.
Domestic violence
Hideout - Help with domestic abuse
Support for victims of domestic abuse
Domestic abuse advice from South Glos Council
Domestic abuse advice from BANES: www.bathnes.gov.uk/services/neighbourhoods-and-community-safety/crime-prevention-and-community-safety/domestic-violence
Domestic abuse advice from Bristol: www.bristol.gov.uk/crime-emergencies/abuse-violence
CAFCASS
The Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service champions the interests of children involved in family proceedings, advising the family courts in England on what it considers to be in the best interests of individual children. See www.cafcass.gov.uk for more information, call 0300 456 4000 or email Telephoneenquiries@cafcass.gsi.gov.uk
Understanding CSE
Child sexual exploitation can happen to anyone under the age of 18 and it is often a hidden crime. Young people may trust their abuser and don't understand that they are being abused or may depend on their abuser and be too scared to tell anyone what's happening. See the Avon and Somerset Police website for more information, including how to recognise the signs of CSE, how to report it and how to access help and support. You can see a PDF leaflet here that provides advice and support for CSE.
Gingerbread
An organisation that can provide expert advice, practical support and campaign for single parents. See www.gingerbread.org.uk or call 0808 802 0925.
Family Lives
Family Lives is a charity that supports families by providing professional, non-judgmental support and advice in a way that all members of the family can freely access. They provide this through their helpline, advice on their website, befriending services, and parenting/relationship support groups.
NHS
The NHS has information and advice for single parents on their website: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/bringing-up-child-alone/